Author of the critically acclaimed book on women and relationship status, “Single That.” https://www.amazon.com/dp/1687069786

The powerhouse singer allows listeners to join her on a journey toward healing.

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Often, when a woman displays vulnerability, she’s liable to be labeled “weak.” If offended, she’s whining. We’ve connected her strength to stoicism in the face of what ails her. Oh, but don’t be TOO strong, or it becomes threatening. So many constraints, so little sense.

Which is why I find…

You’ve mastered loving yourself, now let’s build on that foundation.

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I remain one of the most aggressive beaters of the self-love drum. Self-love is the foundation for healthy relationships and any we try to build while it’s undeveloped will crumble. Self-love is the faucet from which all other love flows. I said that to say, sometimes we don’t let the…

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I decided that it didn’t matter what major I chose in college. It didn’t matter what I studied or that I obtained a degree at all, really. Because I was going to play professional basketball. That would be my career, traveling the world performing a sport I’d discovered I loved…

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