Hi Jen. I LOVE that you brought up attachment styles. That can absolutely be a factor. I actually write about that aspect, here - https://psiloveyou.xyz/how-your-relationship-with-your-mother-affects-your-love-life-40d1f807d10d

Lots of potential details and nuances to get into! This is moreso from a general perspective, assuming there aren’t any mitigating factors. I’m glad you pointed that out.