I agree 100% that the behavior you speak of is toxic and stems from insecurity. I'm speaking of instances where the person is clearly being deceptive and dishonest. Such as the example I gave here where the woman's husband disappeared for a weekend.

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Author of the critically acclaimed book on women and relationship status, “Single That.” https://www.amazon.com/dp/1687069786

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Acamea Deadwiler

Acamea Deadwiler

Author of the critically acclaimed book on women and relationship status, “Single That.” https://www.amazon.com/dp/1687069786

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