Recognizing the difference.

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In the beginning stages of dating someone, I’m rarely all-in. I’m in “wait and see” mode, not from a place of pessimism or negativity but with the understanding that lust looks a lot like love, feels like it too — And in the beginning, before you’ve really gotten to know someone, who they are, what they stand for, and if the two of you are compatible, it’s ALL lust. Unless, you believe in that very, very…