What Fathers Can Learn From the Legacy of Kobe Bryant

3 min readJan 29, 2020

Bigger than basketball.

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I took the below video in May of 2019. Kobe Bryant and his daughter Gianna were in attendance as the WNBA Las Vegas Aces took on the Los Angeles Sparks. You can see how full of joy she appeared to be — how amused she was by either her dad being recognized or seeing the two of them on the Jumbotron, perhaps both, as though this hadn’t happened a thousand times before.

I remember smiling at how beautiful this daddy-daughter sighting was and Kobe having brought her to the game.

Many would say this is nothing and that Kobe was just doing what a father should do. Well, I’d say many don’t know what it’s like to grow up fatherless. To us, it’s something. Small gestures in the eyes of others represent monumental gaps in the timeline of our lives.

I played basketball in college and never had a father come or take me to a game. I doubt he even knew that I was on a team. In witnessing relationships such as Kobe and Gigi’s, you start to understand what you’ve missed.

Let’s address what, for some, may be a character elephant in the room if we must. So that we can move forward. Kobe has never been described as a perfect man or model husband. However, even the most unforgiving critic would struggle to find fault with who he was as a father. This has become even more apparent in the wake of the unfathomable accident that cut multiple lives tragically short, including his and Gigi’s.

I love the way Kobe loved his daughters.

He was tender and affectionate with them, and spoke their names with such pride. His bond with Gigi was especially evident once she started to play basketball and Kobe overtly nourished the interest by taking her on an NBA and WNBA tour, while working to teach her the craft he’d long mastered.

I once wondered if Kobe wished he’d had a son who could follow in his footsteps. Then I saw this video:




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