YES! "Sex is an act done WITH someone, not TO someone!"

I agree when a woman says "rape" most envision a hooligan who sneaks up and overpowers her. When there are many different, less obvious variations.

Your ex... *sigh* The aggressive presumptions are astounding.

Author of the critically acclaimed book on women and relationship status, “Single That.” https://www.amazon.com/dp/1687069786